If you have just gotten out of a long distance relationship, you’re probably very disappointed. (Although, I do give great advice on those here). Even though it can be disappointing breaking up with a girl, you need to remember that this gives you the opportunity to be with an even better woman.
A breakup is never one person’s fault, so don’t put all the blame on yourself. The only thing you can do about a breakup is learn from it. If you learn from your past relationships, then they gave you value. I write about all these lessons in my book, sign up for a copy at http://tj-forum.org/contact-tj/. Now that you’re on the lookout for your next girlfriend, it’s important to get her to notice you. So, how can you make a girl like you fast?
Okay so these are my sonic attraction strategies. What I have learned being out there in the dating game.
The first thing you need to do to make a girl like you fast is be considerate. When you first meet a girl you like, you need to make sure that you actually give her time to talk about her. Many guys end up dominating the conversation and only talking about themselves. This can give the girl a bad impression of you. If the girl has just gotten out of a long-term relationship, be kind and act interested in her problems. If she thinks that you just want to sleep with her, she’ll never pay attention to you again. There are numerous ways to get a girl to like you, and being overtly sexual is not one of them.
In fact, Rachael Ray has talked about this specifically in her show (refer to this article). I agree with her 100%.
Also, you need to be confident. Girls are never attracted to guys who are shy and don’t know what they are doing. You can always melt a girl’s heart by having a confident walk and a great smile. If you think that you’re a catch, she will think you’re one as well. If you have bad teeth, consider getting veneers. Even though they are an investment, they can pay off in the end. Many women say that a great smile is the determining factor in whether or not they will go out with him.
Finally, you need to make sure that you are available. If a girl calls you, make sure that you call her back in a timely manner. At the same time though, you don’t want to come off as desperate. Every once in a while, tell the girl that you have plans even if you do not. You want the girl to know that you have a life and are not available at all hours of the day. It can be challenging for many men to come up with the right mix of availability, but it is a very important factor in getting a girl to like you fast.
If you have followed the advice in the paragraphs above, you should be able to get the girl you like to like you back. As long as you are confident (and you have achieved inner peace), it shouldn’t be that hard for a girl to like you. Girls love it when guys are confident and know what they’re doing, so always try your hardest to do this. Once you have gotten a girl to like you fast, you’ll be able to have a long lasting relationship with her. Check out my post on how to tell if she’s falling for you too here.
Onward and upward!
TJ, over and out!