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One of my regular readers asked me for some inside knowledge the other day, he’s been seeing this girl on and off recently and has no idea what’s happening. So, he wrote in asking, “TJ, give a guy a heads up! How can I tell if she’s falling for me or not?!”
So, in this week’s article on dating and seduction, I’m going to talk about the surefire signs that a girl likes you, this is my inside scoop on how to tell what’s going on with you and your gal.
If you have been dating a girl for a while now, it is important to see how emotionally invested your partner is. You want your partner to always be equally invested in the relationship. Otherwise, you will have to go out of your way to entertain your partner. One of the easiest ways to see if your girlfriend is falling for you is to pay attention to her behavior. There are certain signs that your girlfriend will put on display if she’s falling for you. So, how can you tell if a girl is falling for you?
The best thing to do if you want to see if a girl is falling for you is to purposely ignore her. Whenever she calls you, don’t respond. If she texts you, do not text her back.This might be hard, but you can try meditation in order to calm your nerves.
Also, don’t let her know where you’re going or when you will be back. The reason that you should ignore her is so that you can see how much she values you as a boyfriend. If she gets extremely upset about you ignoring her, it shows that she is very invested in the relationship. It shows you that she is lost without you and is definitely falling for you. If your girlfriend doesn’t seem to care that you aren’t responding to her, it shows that she is not interested in the relationship and that she isn’t falling for you.
Another way to see if your girlfriend is falling for you is to see how much she includes you with her friends and family. If she wants you to meet her friends and spend time with them, it is usually a sign that she is serious about the relationship and thinks that it will last. If your girlfriend never includes you with her friends and thinks of you as a separate part of her life, it usually isn’t a good sign. If your girlfriend is already moving away, check out this link for some advice on how to win her back –
An even better way to see if your girlfriend is falling for you is to ask her to meet your parents. If she reacts positively, it means that she is taking the relationship serious and can see long term potential in it. For long-term dating advice, check out this website –
If you want to be bold, a great way to test out the strength of the relationship is by asking her to move in with you. While this can be very risky, it will show how she truly feels about you. Does she think of you as just a fling? Or does she view the relationship as a serious one? If all else fails, use these tips to make a girl like you fast. 
Now that you know how to find out if your girlfriend is falling for you, you should be able to evaluate the state of your relationship. It is important to find out the feelings of your partner so that you can both make the right decisions. If both partners in the relationship do not feel the same way, it can lead to problems. Being preemptive and trying to find out her feelings is the best way to avoid problems later on.
As usual, email me if you have any questions, and stay tuned for more good advice on dating and relationships!