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TJ's Tips: Online Dating Dos and Don'ts

Online dating happens to be a great way to meet people who are looking for somebody to date and are similar to you. The best part is that these people can either live near you or in another country, depending on your personal preferences.

However, as with everything else in life, there are some do's and don'ts that you need to know.

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Do NOT...

  • ...share any personal information. Although it would be alright and even encouraged to share your city and country when filling up your online dating profile, you should never share any personal information on it, like your home address or your social security number. This might sound like common sense, but a lot of people break this particular rule, especially when they come across particularly persuasive people online.

  • ...share your financial information. On that note, you should make it a point to keep your credit card and banking information confidential. Remember: you do not know these people on the Internet in person, so you shouldn't trust them too easily, either. Although some sites are a screaming fake, some are not. It's always wise to know the paid sites that pay off.

  • ...tolerate abuse. If anybody ends up pressuring you into sharing your personal information or financial information, or if anybody send you abusive comments, report them as soon as possible.

  • ...create easy passwords. When signing up at paid online dating websites, do not create easy passwords that people will be able to hack in no time.

  • Do..

  • ...know that it works. Believe it or not, online dating really works. If you aren't convinced, take a look at this article in Time. In fact, a ton of connections, dates, business collaborations, social networking, sales, marriages, hook-ups and advertising collaborations have happened because of dating websites so far.

  • ...use the available features and services. Online dating websites tend to provide different features and services that you can use to get to know other people on them better. Take full advantage of them.

  • ...know that you aren't alone . If you accept the fact that there are many other people out there exactly like you who are looking for hook-ups, flirting, one-night-stands, teasing, friendships, or dates, you are sure to enjoy the experience much more.

  • different websites. Before joining a particular dating website, make sure you compare different ones first in order to find the perfect one for you that will fit your personal needs and wants.

  • ...have fun. Enjoy the community and the experience of connecting with other people from all over the world who share the same things in common with you. To make sure that you enjoy the experience even more, make it a point to connect with people who have the same interests as you.

  • ...look around. You can gain a lot of new friends and dates by looking around as much as possible. I especially find these dating tips from extra useful. Even if you just want to make new friends in your new neighborhood or want to find people to join your latest book club, a dating website would be a great way to socialize more and meet great people, in general.