Answering An Email On Dating

Roger (roiger_flatt@hotmail.com) from Michigan emailed: “I’m stuck in a rut when it comes to attracting women. Any advice on how to overcome this?”

My Answer:-

Many guys come to me and ask if I have got the best “dating and seduction techniques or tips” which will work no matter what. They do not understand that there is a fallacy when it comes to asking that question… because it presumes that there are “silver bullet” techniques or tactics which will work in all circumstances or situations. That is simply not true.

Well, we can’t blame the guys can we? After all, they are all fed the same lies by the self-proclaimed “seduction gurus” who claim to have these silver bullet solutions which tend to be useless. They are all just out to make a quick buck, and most of them will need to be investigated by the FTC, no doubt. It’s quite sickening to see these shysters trying to scam newbies and poor guys who are having a hard time with women in order to make gobs of money. Shameless!

Now with that rant out of the way, we must also clarify that there are some techniques which are more effective than the others. For example, fractionation (see a good description on what the technique is at http://www.fractionationseduction.net/ ) is known to be a tactic which is highly effective, and is in fact used by most real experts who have an abundance of knowledge and experience when it comes to making women fall in love with them. Want to know how to get a girlfriend like a seduction master? Read on…

So what you will need to do in order to increase your seduction abilities and sharpen your dating skills is to go find out where these techniques are and then learn them. Once you have completely learned them, then go out there and apply them in real life. Learning a bunch of dating and seduction theory is useless unless you get real feedback “in the field” from the women that you approach. You are bound to fail a couple of times before seeing some real success in terms of getting phone numbers and dates. The key here is not to be disheartened when you are faced with failures, but always try again whenever you feel that you are down and out. When you get better, you will be able to see the signs of attraction for sure.

Not many guys realize that even the best dating and seduction teachers failed one time or the other when it comes to impressing women. One can improve simply by “failing forward”. With enough experience, then you will be able to make any woman fall in love with you quickly and easily.

In my next blog post, I will talk more about this – email me if you need any advice on dating in the meantime.

-TJ